Here are two stories
Story 1. Sadly I see my family coming to the crossroads where we stop seeing each other as we used to. We have slowly been arriving at these crossroads in small steps starting with Charles going to UPS, then me going to Berkeley, and then Charles going to NYU for grad school. This year will be the first time Mom, Dad, Me, and Charles aren't going to share Thanksgiving with each other. Charles being in New York doesn't really have time to come back for just the weekend. Partly because of this, and other reasons, I wont be seeing my parents over the Thanksgiving weekend either. Instead, I'm going to J-Tree. Anyway, I think the moment when a family stops sharing family oriented holiday's with each other marks a significant shift in the dynamic and structure of the immediate family. There is some sense of us growing father apart, but at the same time there is the assurance that we can trust each other enough and bank on our love holding us together and not just the actions of meeting and sharing a meal.
Story 2. Today the light in our bathroom burned out. This means that for now we have to either 'do our business' and shower in the dark, or do it with the door wide open. The door wide open option will be kind of awkward for the person coming out of the shower as the shower faces the door directly.